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Wednesday, June 17, 2020

It’s been a long time...

My last post was written in November last year, so it’s certainly been a while! For months I’ve planned many blog posts in my head but haven’t progressed to actually writing them! 😜
So much has happened obviously, including of course the massive upheaval of the lifestyle changes due to the pandemic. So I have lots of subjects for blog posts but I’ve decided to write a post about our granddaughter Carrie as my ‘comeback’ to Blogland. 

From October 5 until early December last year, Carrie, a victim of sepsis, spent a total of 9 weeks in hospital; 6 weeks in ICU, 1 week in a cardiac ward and 2 weeks in a general ward. She survived 2 cardiac arrests, being on life support for 5 days, kidney failure, vascular damage leading to a leg amputation, skin grafts and many other operations. 


One night in the last week of her hospital stay, to allow Carrie’s mum and dad to have a night together, I stayed with the little one. There was a small bench bed beside Carrie’s bed which suited me fine as I’m so short! 
It was a joy to stay with her...




In the second week of December my daughter’s wish that Carrie be home for Christmas was granted. On Christmas Eve Carrie joined the family at our home and on Christmas Day she and her parents lunched with her other grandparents. 


DD1 and our son in law had been warned that Carrie and they faced years of hospital appointments to see various health professionals but that has been a small price to pay to still have this little girl with us. Due to the presence of a remaining blood clot from the vascular damage caused by the sepsis, my daughter had to learn how to give daily injections of a blood thinner drug. This continued for many months. 

In January DD1’s employer allowed her to work from home so she could be with Carrie...we weren’t to know that in a few months just about everyone would be working from home! I helped out by spending a few hours at their home on various days, especially when DD1 knew she needed time at the computer without interruption from a toddler. 




When Carrie’s ‘stump’ had healed, a ‘to the knee’ prosthesis was fitted. The idea of this was to help her crawl, help with balance and eventually being able to stand in a frame which supported her prosthesis. 


The photo above was taken at Daycare. Carrie’s Daycare Centre worked in collaboration with the physio and the occupational therapist to make the centre ‘Carrie friendly’ so that the little girl could return. So from early February, Carrie has attended 3 days a week and the staff have been wonderful. 



In March when her first full leg prosthesis arrived it was found to be too small...Carrie had grown since being measured. But a few weeks later a new leg arrived and Carrie has been learning to walk with it; gradually wearing it for a little longer each day. 
Here are some photos from DH’s birthday celebrations at the end of May. After lunch the little girls played in the garden. 








Carrie’s right leg is in a moon boot as the long weeks lying in bed cause her foot to drop. At first the ankle and foot were put in plaster casts but these were replaced by the boot as it’s easier to change/remove. It was hoped that the ankle and foot would go back into place with this regimen but the latest news is that Carrie will have to have an operation later in the year. 

So there you have it...my return to Blogland! 

12 comments:

Cathy said...

Welcome back Maria. We missed you:)
Take care
Cathy

Vireya said...

You wouldn't know from Carrie's big smile everything she has been through. It looks like she is just one of the gang as the girls play together.

Susan said...

it was a long hard fight - but smiles aplenty now.

good to see you back on your blog.

it does take time and there are all the other social medias to keep up witgh.

Maria said...

Great post and photos for your return ...
Carrie is such a braves little fighter and has a fabulous family to support her.
Such a happy little girl and she's enjoying playing with her cousins and friends at day care .....

Hilachas said...

I’m so glad that Carrie is doing better. Prayers for her good health - and yours.

Gail said...

Welcome Back! Glad to see the Carrie is doing much better! Children are resilient and she has a great support system, I think she'll do fine. Looking forward to more blog posts from you!

Nanna Chel said...

Maria, I was just thinking of you yesterday. Poor little Carrie having to go through all that at such a young age. Welcome back to Blogland!

angela said...

Welcome back. I have followed you on Facebook and marveled at
Your little girls tenacity.
Such a beautiful smiling angel

Brigie said...

It's so good to hear from you. At the very least there are positives to your little lady. Also there are more positives to our every day life. Take care of you.

mamasmercantile said...

You have all been through so much but the smile on that childs face is a delight. Thrilled to read that Carrie is doing so well, in spite of more surgery to come. Take care.

Kim said...

Oh my goodness, what dreadful times you all have been through. I cannot imagine the worry and stress you have experienced throughout Carrie's illnesses. How amazing is Carrie with that big and beautiful smile she has and her amazing determination. Take care, Maria, as you all support each other, and your sweet Carrie. It's is lovely to visit you again.

Jackie said...

Good to see you posting once again. I love Carrie's determination and spunk.

God bless.