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Friday, June 7, 2019

Birthday Bash at Bribie...

A year ago DH started planning a holiday in May 2019 for the immediate family as part of the celebration of his 70th. Each year his 3 daughters, their partners and children spend a long weekend away with his first wife to celebrate her birthday, and DH thought that sounded like a good way to celebrate this special birthday. Finding a property to rent for our blended family of 11 adults and 5 children turned out to be quite a challenge. But we found a large house for rent which overlooked Pumicestone Passage.

Lovely views from the balcony on the first level as well as from the lounge room on street level.







The family went on lots of beach walks...the beach was just over the road...





The sunsets were gorgeous! 







A few group photos were taken on the beach...


Getting up off the sand after this series of photos was ‘interesting’ to say the least! Lol
One morning the family all walked up to the museum and we spent nearly 2 hours looking at the exhibits. On the Sunday we drove up to where the mini trains run...


How’s this for the cutest little steam engine?




We had visitors one day and we went to the Bribie Island Bowls club for lunch as I’d had enough of cooking for a crowd by then, lol. 
The photo shows the meal one of our sons in law ordered 🤪


This was my more modest whiting, chips and salad lunch...


That same afternoon DH and I met 2 friends for afternoon coffee at the same club. These 2 sisters were at school with DH and I so our friendship goes back a long way. 




On the morning of our last full day, DH’s cousin and her husband visited us for morning tea. By then the young people had all gone home so it was just DH and I. 


I did mention in passing just before, that I’d spent a fair amount of the week cooking meals for a bit of a crowd. But I had a lovely kitchen in which to work. I particularly loved these corner drawers and wished I had them at home instead of those difficult to get into corner cupboards that my kitchen has...






Bribie was a perfect venue for our family gathering as where else would you find a main road named in honour of our family? 🤣🤪


Now the back story of this blog post.
The house he found that we eventually rented was very large...but not large enough. It was meant for 8 adults and 3 children. We thought some family members would be happy to sleep on mattresses for the nights of the weekend when it was planned for the whole family to gather...nup, all expected queen size beds. Some stayed many nights and felt that they should have the 3 extra bedrooms. That meant that the other family members with work commitments felt slighted and one couple would only come for the day as a result. I discovered that adults with young children are hampered from being able to offer much help and meals are delayed by baby needs. 
Every day some of the granddaughters had mega ‘meltdowns’ when it came time for bath or bed. And it wasn’t only the grandies...siblings sniping at each other was also observed. 
My 70th might be different! 😉😄

8 comments:

Jackie said...

The house is gorgeous. Sorry that it didn't quite fit your needs though.

I bet DH enjoyed being surrounded by his family on the day.

God bless.

P.S.

It will be your 70th and it can be any way you want it.

mamasmercantile said...

Such a shame the house wasn't quite big enough and that there was some family bickering. Hope DH didn't notice and had the birthday he had hoped.

Vireya said...

Oh, Maria, that wasn't a holiday for you if you had to do all the cooking!

I hope Mr NextStage had some special moments with each member of the family. Happy birthday to him!

Nanna Chel said...

Happy birthday to your hubby, Maria. Yes make your birthday plans according to what you want. It sounds like having everyone together in one house was stressful :-(

Rosie said...

It sounds like you all had a very good time, just like any family there are always some "moments" and things don't change just because they are older. For my 70th last year we just all went out for lunch but I had wanted to go away like you with everyone but we also couldn't find a house big enough for all of us. Also our grandchildren have sport commitments on Saturdays and Sundays so that was another problem. I am still thinking that I might try again to find a large house for my 71st, I don't like to give up!!

Carol- Beads and Birds said...

Funny how one angle of the get away seemed perfect, but when you tell the underlying issues, it's not sounding so perfect anymore. No, Terry is 72 and I am 67 and we learned a long time ago with our kids moving in and out of the house over the years (by necessity) that extended time together can get on our nerves, lol. BUT, what a wonderful place to vacation.
xx, Carol

Nanette said...

Bribie's a beautiful spot for a getaway, but looks very different to when I was last there. Lovely memories for the Mister of a milestone birthday, but kids hey!?

Susan said...

Probably a factor of just too many people with strong opinions!!
I'm am not going to ask if there was much help with the cooking. . . LOL

I'd certainly be thinking a quieter 70th . . .

BUT IF i can see the sun set over water up there - I might need to stay there sometime.