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Showing posts with label families. Show all posts

Thursday, February 2, 2017

My sister in law...

Last Sunday the families gathered to celebrate a number of anniversaries being celebrated by my sister in law Sonja. Sonja had organised a barbeque lunch at the Coorparoo Bowls Club. Ever the organiser, she distributed white napkins to serve as placemats and folded paper napkins (serviettes) in red, white and blue.


When it came time for the guest of honour/hostess to give a speech, Sonja explained why this year was a significant one regarding anniversaries.


Firstly, last Sunday was her 71st birthday. Secondly, Sunday marked the 60th anniversary of Sonja arriving in Brisbane with her parents and older sister, after they had emigrated to Australia from Denmark. Sonja reminisced that she could remember the ship ( a Norwegian cruise ship) making its way up the Brisbane River to where the port was then located, right in the city at Petrie Bight. She recalled that she found the houses in Brisbane so colourful after the 'white and grey' of Denmark.
And thirdly, Sunday was just a few days short of the 50 years since she became an Australian citizen. So lots of good reasons to have a celebration as the family all agreed.
The desserts were amazing! The large rectangular cake is a traditional Danish cake...sorry I don't remember the name though! It's layers of sponge cake (like a Victoria sponge cake) with jam.. The chocolate cake was made by a niece of Sonja's, the pavlova was decorated by Sonja and the iced fruit cake with Australia on top was made by our cousin.

Let me tell you a bit more about my lovely sister in law...long before I could ever have imagined marrying into the Goodwin family, I cut out a photo of the Brisbane evening paper, the Telegraph. I had recognised someone from a family that had gone to my primary school. In my teens I kept scrapbooks filled with newspaper cuttings of people I knew even if some didn't know me!! That 'someone' was Keith and his then fiancé Sonja.


They were buying Sonja's wedding shoes. An old Danish custom involved a bride-to-be saving for her wedding shoes, collecting copper coins in the lowest denomination, and storing them in a champagne bottle. In the article (from 1967-68), Sonja explained that she was glad that Australia had new coins after the switch to decimal currency, as the old penny and halfpenny coins would not have fitted in the neck of the bottle.


The shoes, described as 'guipure lace sling backs' cost $10.99. ( so there were at least 1099 cent pieces in that bottle...or so we're told!)

Sonja and my brother in law, not only had teaching careers in Australia (North Queensland and Sydney), but also some time in Canada. They had 2 children and Keith was active in the Jaycees. Then he entered politics  and became Mayor of Cairns in 1988.

Then tragedy struck...Keith was killed in a plane crash in May 1990. In an interview with the New Idea magazine, my elegant and dignified sister in law stated, 'Maybe God was calling a meeting upstairs and he wanted a very good chairman'.

And then Sonja stood for council herself.

Eventually Sonja came back to Brisbane to live, which was great because most of the family is here, and we see her a lot more as a consequence.



 At DH and my wedding in 2004, Sonja caught the bouquet, but no Mr Right has come along...we still often joke with each other about that! lol
The next photo was taken on Sonja's birthday 5 years ago...she came for afternoon tea and brought her own cake!


And finally a photo of me with the youngest guest there last Sunday...little Anthea!

 

Friday, January 24, 2014

Grow Your Own Blog Party...

I signed up recently  for this feature over on Vicki's blog '2 Bags Full' and January 25 is already here!


The idea is that the participants write a post in which each introduces his/herself. Vicki has a linky on her blog to enable people to visit these blog posts. Over 500 people signed up this year so perhaps most people will only visit a few blogs! lol

So here goes...


My name is Maria and I live in Brisbane, Queensland, Australia. I am a retired teacher and have adapted to the retirement lifestyle very well! I have a DH , 2 daughters and 3 stepdaughters; the girls range in age from 33 down to 28.

A family Christmas get together with our extended family...
My favourite colour is purple...


I love old embroidered linens, pretty china and hydrangeas...



I started blogging in November 2010 mainly because I found inspiration in Rhonda Hetzell's Down to Earth blog after I read an article she wrote in one of the lifestyle magazines, and thought, 'I could try this'. From Rhonda's blog I started to visit the blogs of people who left comments on her blog...I would comment on their blogs and many visited my blog and even became followers. And I still do that...visit...comment and so often find really interesting people. I've learned so much from reading other people's blogs, free craft pattern sites especially! And I've made friends...some of whom I have gone on to meet in person!

Meeting up with fellow bloggers from SE Queensland...


My banner proclaims that the blog would chronicle my adventures as I moved into retirement, but I really had no clear goals about the direction of my blog.

So over the years I've written about the crafts that I enjoy and I 'show off' photos of things that I've made.

Knitting, patchwork piecing and stitching...

Knitting dishcloths/washers

I love working with mohair yarns...

I love hexagons and have been stitching projects with them since the 1970s...


A little bit of crocheting there too!

I've blogged about the groups that I belong to, especially the charity group, 'Knitting for Brisbane's Needy' and Sisters of Stitch, (not a charity but a group which 'feeds' my love of crafts).


With my friend Cheryl at Sisters of Stitch...
I still meet regularly with my former work colleagues...


I've talked about my family and friends in blog posts; I've also talked about the downright mundane ordinary things that are part of my life...such as putting IKEA furniture together! lol


And I even wrote posts about a stay in hospital!



Other posts have focussed on my gardening exploits and my 'battles' with the wildlife for the privilege of eating what I grow! lol



A number of people have commented or emailed me to say they really enjoy my 'looking back' posts when I talk about my life growing up and moving through the various decades to my lofty spot now in my early 60s.


Aged 10

Aged 19


Occasionally, I write posts  about my teaching career...especially my predilection for 'dressing up! Some funny ones there!

The main photo is in my Year 7 classroom...the school principal has taken over from me at the blackboard so a newspaper photographer can get a photo. We are dressed up for the school's 75th Anniversary. I did not teach when those were the everyday fashions! lol
Being retired, DH and I travel a bit more than we used to and I like to blog about these holiday adventures...



I also like to write posts about my own city...

The Brisbane River near Kingsford Smith Drive...

The Performing Arts Centre
Since retirement I have more time for reading, and occasionally I review a book I've recently read...





So there you have it; the very eclectic 'The Next Stage' Blog...

Sunday, October 27, 2013

On the mend...

Thank you for all those well wishes following my operation last Tuesday. I have been so fortunate; I had no adverse effects from the anesthetics, very little pain  discomfort in hospital which was controlled easily with paracetamol, little or no bleeding and best of all, my biggest fear wasn't realised. I was terrified that my bodily functions would 'sulk' after surgery and it would take ages to get them working again. But they worked fine with no discomfort! Woot Woot!! lol

 I have been home since Friday morning as I got an 'early mark' for being so well. So I have been doing lots of resting while DH takes care of catering, cleaning and laundry. For this week, I just have to take little walks around the yard, taking it gently.  Today DH went for his usual Sunday golf game so DD1 came over to 'babysit' and generally look after me. 

DD1 brought over 2 platters filled with cheeses, antipasto and fruit; I was very spoiled


She arrived at 10am and about 10.10 I said I felt a bit tired so was going to lie down on the bed for half an hour. I woke up at 12.10! lol
After lunch we sat in the lounge and Eduardo was thrilled to have DD1 over and promptly sat on her lap...

He got lots of tickles and behind ear scratches from her...
By mid afternoon I was weary again and settled down on the sofa...so Eduardo came and sat on me!

I'm not quite ready for any sewing or knitting at the moment as my attention span is affected, but have been sorting through patterns and craft mags instead. It won't be long before I'm back into it. (I hope! lol) 

Friday, September 27, 2013

Taking small steps...

A little while ago I wrote a post about the strain of having a  relative who was struggling with mental health issues. The strain wasn't just this person's behaviours but also from the pressure of other family members who felt that 'it was up to me to solve the problem'. Since then, I have found a wonderful organisation called Arafmi which offers support for carers/friends/relatives of those who suffer from a variety of mental illnesses. 
I now attend a support group meeting in New Farm most months and have found it so helpful to understand the illness affecting the life of our relative. It was so empowering to share 'my story' and see other people nodding their heads as they also had a loved one who had similar behaviours; no judgemental reactions, just empathy. 

As well as the support group meetings, I have attended an Arafmi workshop on coping which I found most informative and this, plus what I have learned in the support group, has made it so much easier for me to work out strategies of dealing with issues when they arise. I understand our relative's behaviours better and, in turn, I have been gradually helping others in the family be more informed. 

I know that if there should be a crisis, there is a 24/7 counselling hotline provided by Arafmi, and, as well, appointments with  counsellors are available in New Farm 2 mornings a week. There is also a small library and already I have borrowed a recommended book which I have found very helpful. 

The problem for our family will not go away, but at least we know we are not alone.